The weight difference between an electric vehicle and a diesel is not that important. TESLA being a special case.
The e-Up, Zoé, Leaf are in the average of current cars.
A diesel engine, its exhaust, its tank are not light.
An electric motor, its simplified transmission, its electronics and its battery hold the comparison, to within 10%.
We are therefore far from doubling the weight or reducing the yield by 2.
The self-discharge of the batteries is also negligible on current models and unless they are stored completely discharged, they do not fear several months of non-use.
The only current electric car that suffers from self-discharge is Bolloré's Bluecar, because of its LMP batteries which are "lukewarm batteries" and must be kept at temperature.
Apart from the performance aspect, self-discharge is not a problem on this car-sharing car which is reconnected to its socket each time we leave the car to stop the rental. If the car is not reconnected, the rental billing continues ...
Ditto for the scooter if it uses current battery technologies. I add that some scooters have removable batteries which allow to completely overcome the fears of self-discharge. The consumption of an electric scooter is around half a liter per 100km (50Wh / km).
I understand that you are not receptive to the arguments of the electric car. You are trying to persuade yourself that it does not work and it will. It is perfectly counterproductive to entrust electric vehicles to people who want them for no reason. Experience has shown in the past that electric vehicles which have been imposed (in local communities or businesses) on users who did not want them have ended in failure, the users in question massacring the vehicles for break down.
Conversely, by offering electric vehicles on a voluntary basis, the curious who volunteered mostly adopted them with enthusiasm and satisfaction.
I switched to this mode of travel because it was theoretically superior to the thermal vehicle, while fearing "that it is not for me". In fact it is the lady who decided to have an EV because I didn't dare. A month after its purchase I was going out of my way to get mine ... And yet our venerable Peugeot 106s are far from flawless.