Let's take it calmly: no, the peak oil is not an economic vision, but a physical reality that proclaims that we have (once reached) the same amount of oil that has been consumed previously, but that the amount of energy needed for extraction will be (and more and more) much larger than in the previous period (which limits ipso facto the recoverable volume, much more than just the pecuniary cost).
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But in what way is it a fatal danger? Our gluttony leads us to evolve and to become aware of certain things inaccessible without this form of evolution by error.
The danger comes precisely that this awareness of the energy abuse does not translate in any way by the rectifications that this implies, but on the contrary by a headlong rush that you seem, at times, to endorse. This is particularly the case when you mention the space adventure which would be the "logical" result of our inability to manage the Earth ...
Your last two paragraphs are based on a relativism that seems utterly irrelevant to me: if the Earth is very little considered on the scale of the universe, it is however the only part that concerns us directly and which engages our responsibility: the energy that is dissipated is not in vain, it directly serves the destruction of the living conditions of living species, including us.